This May sound like the most obvious, easy thing and yet the hardest.
Because so often we’re taught, ”your value, your worth, where you are and who you are is measured & confirmed by someone or something outside of you.”
This understanding of how you perceive yourself mostly feels like your own, with some sort of invisible measurement reminding you that you’re somehow “missing the mark” when you compare yourself to the way you “should” look, be, or show up.
But the truth is…. the most potent way to be and walk through the world is to be authentically you. You are literally made of stardust, and there are multiverses inside of you… limitless possibilities through which you are meant to discover and express who you are.
This is actually the greatest gift to yourself, others and the world. When you live limited by someone else’s expectations, or visions of you or for you… so much is lost.
No matter where you are in your healing journey... you are exactly where you are meant to be. There is no wrong place, no need to compare yourself to where you think you should or shouldn't be, or who you are or are not. Right now is where the alchemy is happening.
This exact moment is the portal between two worlds of what has been and what is becoming..
A truly magical moment.
This is the magic that’s not always obvious... it’s not seen unless you with intention take the time to drop into it. Because even a deep sigh from exhaustion whispers to connect into the body to look.
And sometimes looking into where we are in the moment can seem and feel scary, as so much of the way we’ve seen or see ourself runs first through the filters of our experiences. These summations of ourself may seem to be black & white and linear (the having or not having, the being or not being, where we’ve been vs where we want to be).